Milan · coming soon
The Milan club where queer friendships start. Activities together, no dating.
FaiAmici helps queer people make friends — friends only — through the activities you already love: dinners, aperitivo, cinema, concerts, sports. You browse plans, not people.
You don't browse people. You browse plans.
Activities, not feeds
No grid of profiles one meter away. A plan: “Dinner for six, Wednesday at 8.” You decide if it's for you.
Friendship, not dating
The pact is clear and it never changes: this is for friendship. No dating modes, no dating filters. Ever.
Safe by default
Adults only, small tables with a host present, verified email. Safety is a product feature, not fine print.
How it works
Sign in with your email
A 6-digit code lands in your inbox. No password, no profile essays.
Answer a few questions
Age, area, what you'd like to do: three minutes and you're on the list.
We write when it opens
The moment Milan's first table gets a date, you hear it first.
Joining the list is free, with no commitment.
The first plans
Examples of what's coming — every table is small, verified, and hosted.
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Dinner for six
On Wednesdays, a table of six strangers who don't stay strangers.
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Aperitivo
One drink downtown to break the ice, no rush.
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Cinema
A film together, then dinner arguing about it.
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Concert
From Santa Cecilia to the tiny club, in company.
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Day hike
A Sunday of green, chatter and a well-earned sandwich.
Why we exist
«I tried a dinner with strangers. A lovely evening — until I said I was gay. Then: silence and sideways looks. I paid the bill and never went back.»
— M., 47, Milan
An anonymized story, shared with permission. No photos, no names.
The pact
Friendship only. Adults only. A host at every table. Break the pact and you're out, no second chances.
Read the pact →Privacy, briefly
No trackers, no advertising. We keep your email and the answers you choose to give us, on European servers. That's all a seat takes — nothing more.
Privacy, briefly and beyond →Questions
Isn't it also for dating?
No. FaiAmici exists for friendship, period. If you're looking for dates, this place isn't for you — and that's fine.
When does it start?
Milan first. Join the list and we'll write the moment the first table has a date.
What does it cost?
Joining the list is free. Activities will be paid, and later we may offer a subscription for people who want to join more. For every event you'll know the price and what it includes beforehand, and you never pay for anything you didn't choose.
Who is it for?
Gay and bi men in their forties and beyond, in Milan or passing through. The club is queer and inclusive: the pact matters, not the profile.
And my privacy?
No third-party trackers, data stays on European servers, and you can erase your data yourself anytime, or ask us for a copy.
Can I leave the list?
Anytime, with one click from your member page.
Join the list
First your email: we send you a 6-digit code, no password. Then a few questions, three minutes, and the seat is yours.